Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Katie the Maid

I love my daughter's creativity! She comes up with ideas that entertain her brother and his friends! Sometimes, however, she regrets her great ideas. Today was one of those days. But she is such a trooper. She goes ahead and finishes what she starts and makes good on her promises!
Today Eli's best buddy Levi is over to play. They were getting bored since it's too cold to play outside. Katie made up the game of you be the messy kids and I clean up and be the maid. So, she let them mess up her room while she cleaned Eli's and then they messed up Eli's while she cleaned up hers. This was fun until the 3rd or 4th time. But she did it one more time then she told them the maid is gone home for the night!
Now she has them playing hide and go seek. Although I'm not sure she's seeking those lost boys! GREAT THINKING THIS TIME KATIE!!!

No Self Confidence Here

Yesterday Eli got a haircut. He told the lady he wanted it to be short and look good like daddy's. Then he sat quietly while she cut. She kept commenting on how well behaved he was. He looked up and said "well, I am a good boy!" After the haircut he looked in the mirror and said "I look handsome". I guess he is fully self confident. No need to build his self esteem!

Monday, December 28, 2009

Christmas Letter 2009

For a child will be born to us, a son will be given to us;

And the government will rest on His shoulders;

And His name will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God,

Eternal Father, Prince of Peace.

Isaiah 9:6

Merry Christmas. It has been an interesting year in the Riggan household. Each family member has had points of seeing God clearly. Let us explain:

Rick: After being an employee of the Siemens’ Corporation for 14 years the company decided to downsize significantly. Rick was laid off in July this year. Rick sent out dozens and dozens of resumes and began networking on several websites and seeking the Lord diligently. Finally, in October, after several interviews, he was hired at Platronics in Santa Cruz, California (www.plantronics.com). It is a good company that has been in existence since the 1960’s when Neil Armstrong wore a Platronics headset on the moon! The Lord taught Rick many things during this waiting period; probably the most important one is God is the Mighty God!

Mendy: This year has been a challenge for me physically as well as maternally. My fibromyalgia has been getting worse. As a result, I have had to slow down and reevaluate what is most important; being a wife and mother! So, I have stepped down from many activities and chosen to be home more. I have also had two urgent care visits (one with each child) that have stretched my faith. God has made Himself known to me in these difficult times; He is my Prince of Peace!

Katie (8): Last spring Katie was playing at the park with a friend and fell off the monkey bars. I took her straight to the urgent care knowing she’d be coming out of there with a cast. And sure enough she broke her elbow and got a blue cast. This was one week before Easter. So she wore a blue and white dress to match her blue cast on Easter Sunday! We have also decided to home school Katie this year. She is in second grade and doing great. We have always said we would take each year as it comes. She, however, has decided she wants to home school until she goes to college! We’ll see. This year, I’d say, the Lord is teaching Katie that He is her Wonderful Counselor!

Eli (3): Eli is always full of energy and surprises. He is quite the comedian. This year his big excitement was nearly cutting his finger off. He didn’t get all the way through the finger so we were able to save it! He had finger surgery and is now doing great. We’re hoping his nail is back by Christmas! Eli has learned that God is the Eternal Father!

We do hope this little update finds you well and at peace with God.

God Bless,

The Riggan Family

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Clean...

Some days as a mom and housewife I feel like all I do is clean...laundry, dishes, floors, baby bums, etc. Today was no exception. Dishes were piled, laundry was flowing onto the floor. I thought, "man, does the cleaning up ever stop...every time I clean this there's another mess" Then I had a thought. Does the Lord ever get tired of cleaning me? I mean, He sent His one and only Son to clean me and I seen to get myself all messed up again. Does He ever think "good grief Mendy, when are you going to get your act together and stay clean?" No, I don't think so. God loves all the time without hesitation. He willingly cleans me every time I make a mess. Oh, if I could only be like Him and love my family, mess and all!

Merry Christmas Bell!


Christ Bell - someone went to a lot of trouble to make this !

THE BELL

I KNOW WHO I AM
I am God's child (John 1:12)
I am Christ's friend (John 15:15 )
I am united with the Lord (1 Cor. 6:17)
I am bought with a price (1 Cor 6:19-20)
I am a saint (set apart for God). (Eph. 1:1)
I am a personal witness of Christ. (Acts 1:8)
I am the salt & light of the earth (Matt 5:13-14)
I am a member of the body of Christ (1 Cor 12:27)
I am free forever from condemnation ( Rom. 8: 1-2)
I am a citizen of Heaven. I am significant (Phil 3:20)
I am free from any charge against me (Rom. 8:31 -34)
I am a minister of reconciliation for God (2 Cor 5:17-21)
I have access to God through the Holy Spirit (Eph. 2:18)
I am seated with Christ in the heavenly realms (Eph. 2:6)
I cannot be separated from the love of God (Rom 8:35-39)
I am established, anointed, sealed by God (2 Cor 1:21-22 )
I am assured all things work together for good (Rom. 8:28 )
I have been chosen and appointed to bear fruit (John 15:16 )
I may approach God with freedom and confidence (Eph. 3: 12 )
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me (Phil. 4:13)
I am the branch of the true vine, a channel of His life (John 15: 1-5)
I am God's temple (1 Cor. 3: 16).
I am complete in Christ (Col. 2: 10)
I am hidden with Christ in God (Col. 3:3).. I have been justified (Romans 5:1)
I am God's co-worker (1 Cor. 3:9; 2 Cor 6:1). I am God's workmanship (Eph. 2:10)
I am confident that the good works God has begun in me will be perfected. (Phil. 1: 5)

I have been redeemed and forgiven (Col 1:14). I have been adopted as God's child (Eph 1:5)

I belong to God
Do you know
Who you are?

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Things I never Thought I'd Say Part 2

My son is only 3 and a half and I have so many things I never thought I'd say. What will the next 15 years be like?

"Yes. It's a nice pocket, but we probably shouldn't put your batman in there. The pants wont fit over it." (when he discovered the open flap in his underwear).

"Seriously, stop licking the dog. You'll get hair all over your tongue"

"Close your mouth when you kiss people. Open kisses are NOT OK"

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

"You're Not Fair!!!"

OK. I know I've written a lot today. And I wasn't going to add this, but Rick said it was blog worthy. (He also said we must remember it for future girlfriend stories! Maybe blogging will help.)
Today Eli came in the room and had no pants or underwear. He asked for a soda. I turned around and saw his nakedness. I said, "no you may not have a soda until your pants are on. Go get some pants on now." He said, "Katie got to have one." I said "Katie has pants on. Go get some pants and I'll help you get them on." He threw himself on the floor crying "That's not fair! That's not fair! I want a soda! You're not fair, mama!" He was then sent to his room and told he couldn't come out without pants on. He cried how unfair I was until he fell asleep about 5 minutes later! Guess he was tired! But he did get some pants on before coming out to dinner. No pants no service is my rule! And it's totally fair!

Kid's Spiritual Gifts

One of the things I have enjoyed as a mom is looking for and nourishing my kids' spiritual gifts. As Solomon says in Proverbs 22:6 "Train up a child in the way he should go..." My job as a mom is to find what the Lord has made my kids to do and be and help them get there.

For a long time I have known that one of Katie's spiritual gifts is the gift of encouragement but recently she demonstrated it beautifully. I was having a hard day. My head was hurting and I didn't really want to do much more than be in bed. She made me cards, came in and rubbed my head and prayed for me. She encouraged me greatly. Yesterday we were at the store and Katie saw someone looking unhappy. She went over to the woman and smiled. She just smiled. The woman told me how wonderful my children are. Her entire face lit up because Katie smiled at her. I was so blessed to have such a daughter.

Today I heard that one friend had fallen and broke her neck. Then I heard that my friend who is waiting for her double lung transplant is not doing well today. I was sad. But Eli showed me his spiritual gift! He began to pray. As he prayed he not only thought of my two friends but he prayed for their families and doctors and everyone around them. This 3 year old, who can barely sit still for anything, prayed for 10 minutes with such power. I was so blessed.

My kids may have more spiritual gifts as they grow up. But God has shown me one in each one of them that is beautiful and can be cultivated right now.

If you are a parent, are you looking for your kids gifts and how to encourage them in it?Do you have friends or family who are young in their faith that can be encouraged in their gifts? I highly recommend that you do encourage them; you will all be blessed!

Idols

On Sunday my pastor taught on idol worship. He mentioned that anything that takes you away from God is an idol. It made me begin thinking of things that could be an idol in my life. He asked some questions. One was what do you talk about, think about, spend time on the most in your life? Another was what would your friends say you talk about, think about, spend the most time on in your life?

Mark Driscol says that idols sometimes are very good things that you have made into God things. As Christians sometimes we make Christianity our idol (worshipping the fact we are Christians rather than the one who bought our salvation). Sometimes it's being a Republican or Democrat or a dog owner or a cat owner or male or female or money or cars or clothes or image or family.

As I began to answer the questions my pastor asked, I began to think that my kids would be the answer to those questions. I am consumed with teaching them, raising them, keeping them alive! So are my children my idols? Well, sometimes I'd have to say yes. I skip my quiet time with God often because the kids need me. I always thought that this is just the season for that and I need to give myself a break. And in someways that is true. But when I go days in a row and never read my Bible but give tons of energy into these kids I have made them my idol.

What are your idols? If you were to honestly answer those questions, what would your say?

Lost and Found

Yesterday we went to the doctor to check Eli's finger. They took the cast off and put on a simple finger splint. I wasn't sure this was adequate for my active boy, but didn't argue. After the appointment we went to Target. All of a sudden Eli yells out, "I think I lost something" and put up his finger without a splint. I was so mad. I looked everywhere for that thing. 45 minutes later as I'm crawling around on the floor of the Target pantie section and I'm about to give up I see the thing laying under a rack. It must have had a great bounce! I get up and put it on when I notice Katie's strange smile. I asked her what was wrong and she says "I was praying you'd find it right when you found it".
I felt horrible and joyful all at the same time. I felt horrible because here I was looking and being mad for 45 minutes and never once thought of asking God for help. What kind of Christian am I? I will be praying through that one for a while! But I also felt such joy. My daughter at 8 years old was given proof that God is real, He does hear, He does answer! God cares even about the small simple things like finding her brother's splint! She will not forget this anytime soon! God is so good.
BTW...Last night we went to the library where that splint fell off a few more times. We went to Walgreen's and I bought tape and that thing is taped to his hand like crazy. He will not loose it anytime soon!

Eli's explanation

On Thanksgiving Eli was talking on the phone to my sister. He was trying to tell her what happened to his finger. His explanation is "a big dinosaur lizard was in our back yard and bit my finger off".
Oh the imagination of a three year old!

Eli's Finger AGAIN!

As many of you know I have spent my fair share of time in the urgent care and orthopedic office at out local clinic. This time it was Eli's turn.

The kids were playing outside when I heard a scream. Eli had dropped a rock or something on his finger. He came in with blood everywhere. There was a bloody hand print on my bedroom door that looked like a serious crime scene. I grabbed him, a kitchen towel, an ice pack and our new insurance cards (that had just come in the mail) and ran to the car. We went straight to the urgent care. They took us right in because the bleeding was so bad they wanted to check his oxygen level. The urgent care doctor said that she could stitch it up but it will be deformed (not the words she used, but the meaning) and may not have feeling. Then she decided to go have a second opinion. That doctor said they should go get a hand surgeon to look at it. When they got downstairs to look for a hand surgeon to come see it they found Dr. Hay and his assistant packing up to go home for the day. They graciously agreed to come up and look at it. They decided they needed to do the surgery themselves. So down to their out patient operating room we went. Eli was numbed from the middle of the hand to the tips of his finger. Once that was done, he sang songs and watched the whole surgery as if it was on someone else. (He has the Mosely medical blood in him!). As he is laying there and the doctor is at work he asked to sing Christmas songs. The doctor said "how about frosty the snow man?" Eli looks at him and said "no. that's not Christmas". Then the doctor said "how about Rudolf the red nosed reindeer". Again Eli says "No, that's not Christmas. Christmas is Jesus." Then he sang Angels We Have Heard On High. It was so funny. When the surgery was done and we got home I realized we had actually had all that happen in just a little over 2 hours.

This was a horrible accident. His finger was actually severed almost completely off his hand. But through it all I can't help but see so many "Praise God" moments. Let me list them...

1. He never lost too much blood. They checked his oxygen several times and he always was at 100%.

2. He missed the bone completely. There was no need for pinning of the finger.

3. Dr. Hay was on his way out. Had we been just 5 minutes later my son would have a deformed finger.

4. Eli, a 3 year old, was able to present the gospel to his doctor and the assistant while he was having surgery.

5. The whole things was done and over in such a short time. We were able to come home and have dinner and it didn't burn while we were gone!

6. I had amazing peace through the whole thing. Usually I have condemnation and fear but this time I knew God had a bigger plan and I just needed to go with it. Who knows, maybe Dr. Hay and his assistant really listened and a seed was planted?!

I'm sure there was more the Lord did. But I can't think of them at the moment!

Friday, November 20, 2009

Homeschooling Katie (and myself)

This is our first year homeschooling. It has been fun. But what has been cool, to me anyway, is how much I am learning. (I'd say relearning, but I honestly don't know if I ever knew some of this stuff!) For example, the other day Katie's writing assignment was "If you could go anywhere for a vacation where would you go and why?". Katie proceeded to write about wanting to go to South Dakota. I didn't even know she knew about South Dakota so I asked her why she wants to go there. She said she wants to see the mountain with the men's faces in it (Mount Rushmore). I was shocked. Then I realized I didn't even know that Mount Rushmore was in South Dakota. I would have said something profound like, "It's on the east side of the country". I looked it up and sure enough she was right. We will never again forget that Mount Rushmore is in South Dakota. Why did she know this and I did not? She watched a Veggie Tale where Larry made fun of South Dakota and at the end of the film make a music video about the great things in South Dakota. Who says Veggie Tales aren't educational?!
Another example of how much Katie is teaching me, she did a report on the Mayflower. She researched at a friends house and wrote the oral report there. I had nothing to do with is until it was time to practice. As she practiced I learned that there were 102 passengers on the Mayflower; 32 of them being kids. Later in the day after having her practice several times Eli comes in and tells me he is one of the 32 kids on the "flower boat". We are all learning from keeping Katie home!

Things I Never Thought I'd Say...

As a mom of a boy I have found myself saying things I never thought I'd say. It never ceases to amaze me how different boys are from girls.
Here are a few (although I have a feeling more will be added later).

* Please don't bite the dog again.

* Get your hands out of your pants.

* Poop is not paint!

* That's a doll, not a machine gun.

* No goosing the mama.

*OH, yea. That is a big waterfall. (As he pees standing up at the toilet)

* Yep. Sure is a huge poop!

* Don't pee on the dog...you should use a toilet. (As he peed outside and tried to get the dog who was sniffing around him)

My all time favorite...

* NO! We do not wear a toilet seat on our head.

Monday, November 16, 2009

Jesus And Me


Yesterday we had some friends over. Eli happily served his banana bread that he helped me make. When our friends asked if he made the bread he proudly said "Yes, Jesus and me".
What a lesson for all of us. As Paul said in Colossians 3:23 "Whatever you do, do your work heartily, as for the Lord rather than for men"
Out of the mouths of babes!

Spurgeon Quote


I heard a great quote last night. It's from Charles Spurgeon.
"The Bible that is falling apart usually belongs to the life that is not falling apart!"
So, are you using your Bible well? What has the Lord told you through the scriptures today?

My Amazing Kids

I have some great kids. This blog is to chronicle our family life and I feel I need to share this for future sake!
On Friday I had a migraine. This was probably the worst migraine I've had since before Eli was born. It was bad! Then I took the kids to their swimming class and sat in the room with all the chlorine chemicals in the air and got worse and worse. (Dumb, I know. I should have sat outside.) Anyway, when we got home I was sick as can be. Katie proceeded to make her brother lunch, start her own lunch, do some dishes and rub my head and praying for me. Then she sent me to bed and took care of her brother. I slept for 2 hours before Eli came in and asked how long Katie was the boss. I wanted to laugh, but my head still hurt. When I finally got up, Katie told me that she and Eli had put the clothes from the washer into the dryer but didn't know how to run the washer so they just separated the clothes for the next load.
Can you believe it? I couldn't. These are some amazing kids. I didn't know they knew how to do as much as they did. I guess it's true that they are watching all the time. Now that I know they can do it, though I'm making them do more today. (Maybe that's why Katie isn't feeling well!)

Eli School

Today Eli decided he wanted to do school. He has a drawer in the school desk that has "write on wipe off" books and dry erase markers. He pulled out his alphabet book and went to work. He turned to the "M" page and said "hey momma, a is for moose". I said "great try. but M is for moose." He said, "oh yea, M is for moose". Then he moved on to the "V" page and said "hey momma, a is for bird." I said, "great job. but that's a vulture. V is for vulture". He said "oh yea. V is for vulture". Then he looked at the U page. He said, "hey momma, b is for horn on horse". I said with a giggle "oh honey, that's a unicorn. U is for unicorn." He said "oh, ok". Then he turned back to the O page. He said "hey momma. O is for octopus, right?" I said "Great Job! You're right. O is for octopus." He smiled and said "YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS! I got one right!" It was so cute.
Later, when I was cleaning up the pages I noticed that he actually did try to write most of the letters. He makes a great b, C, c, M, N, O, o, P, p, V, X, x, Y, Z and z. I am so impressed with my 3 year old. I hardly ever work with him. When I do he's rarely interested. But if I just let him do it when he wants he does a great job.
Lesson for mom's: make it available and they will try!!!

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

All the necessities in life!

Katie was told school was done for the day but she couldn't watch a DVD. She got paper and scissors and colored pencils and started working. She made a paper cell phone, ipod, nintendo d.s. and a computer. All the necessities in life! She made copies for her brother. Now they're playing office in my living room. I love her creativity and willingness to include her brother!

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Eli is Potty Trained


Earlier I made apost saying I wasn't sure my son would ever be potty trained. Well, I was wrong. After watching his sister in swimming class Eli announced he wanted to swim too. So my mom told him that if he got potty trained she'd pay for one month of swimming class. That was all the motivation he needed. He potty trained in a week and has enjoyed 3 lessons! Here's some pictures.


Swimming class


For Katie's PE part of homeschooling she is taking swimming. She is really good at it. She's working on tredding water for a minute, swimming under water from one side to the other, picking up rings from 6 feet deep, different strokes and diving. Here's some pictures of our beauty in action.













Eli-ism #2

Rick started a new job yesterday. For the first time in most of Eli's life Rick has to go into an office. He's always worked mostly at home. So this morning when Eli got up he walked all around the house looking for Rick. He came to me and this is how the conversation went...

E: Mom, where's daddy?
M: He went to work.
E: (eye's bugging out) AGAIN?!
M: Yep. Everyday this week.
E: Why?
M: He has a new job and has to work 5 days then he gets Saturday with us.
E: (slaps his head and rolls his eyes) Too much work!

Poor guy. He misses his daddy and it's only been a day and a half.

Eli-ism #1


After watching Princess Bride the kids have been repeating phrases and sceens. Eli especially has been doing this. Last night he was doing something we all thought was funny. As we were laughing he bluts out "I wuv my woovie. Stop waffing at me. You kill my faver. Pwepawe to die." (Translation is "I love my movie. Stop laughing at me. you killed my father prepare to die". The last part is from Princess Bride!).

Solomon's Wisdom

I've been reading Ecclesiastes this month. Solomon is writing to his son about what is really important in life. He concludes with what I think is the best advise for moms; especially for home school moms.

Ecclesiastes 12:12-14

12But beyond this, my son, be warned: the writing of many books is endless, and excessive devotion to books is wearying to the body.

13The conclusion, when all has been heard, is: fear God and keep His commandments, because this applies to every person.

14For God will bring every act to judgment, everything which is hidden, whether it is good or evil.


I don't know about you, but I am always getting parenting books and magazines from the library. In the last 6 months I think I've read more than a few dozen home schooling articles, books and blogs. I am always craving the wisdom of how to teach Katie all she should know and take care of Eli without resorting to DVD's all the time.

Then I read Solomon's words this morning. It was like God was saying to me, "Mendy, stop reading all those books. Stop looking for answers all over the world. Fear ME. Seek ME. Know ME. I know what Katie needs to know. I know what Elisha needs to grow. I know the plans I have for you and your family. Follow MY ways. Follow MY commandments. Remember I will be the one who will judge. Not the sate of California. Not the charter. No one but ME!"

Whether you're a mom, a home schooling mom or someone who cares for kids, this advise is from my heart to your; trust God and let Him guide how you care for the kids around you! He knows better than any author out there!

The Three P's

Rick and I were listening to a message given by Pastor Mark Driscoll of Mars Hills Church in Seattle. He talked about remembering the 3 P's in your life. It spoke to me and I'm still pondering it so I thought I'd share.

1. Plate
2. Priorities
3. Prune

1. He says that #1 we need to remember our plate size. Some of us have dinner roll sized plates and some have platter size plates. The key is to know the size of your own plate and not to over fill it or under fill it! Do just what God made for you to do. I have recently come to realize that my plate is not as big as some of my friends or family. I need to stop trying to compare my plate and just fill my plate but not overfill it!

2. We need to know our priorities. Then fill the plate only with those things that fit into our priorities. My priorities are 1. God (seeking Him and His plan for me daily!) 2. Rick (knowing how to meet his needs and wants and making life good for him) 3. the kids (home school both kids, teach them the ways of the LORD, keep them safe and clean) 4. my home (the one I hate the most...clean, cook, plan, prepare, run things here) 5. my extended family (my parents and in-laws, my siblings, my nieces and nephews...pray for them, check in with them, love on them) 6. ministry (worship team, prayer team, nursery).

3. Pruning. This is a new one to me. We need to take the plate, look at the priorities and see what is falling off the plate. If I spend too much time on #6 and not enough on #1 I need to cut some things on #6! Also, he mentioned that each season has a different pruning. While the kids are little they demand a lot of attention and sometimes my time with God and Rick suffers. I just need to be more diligent that other things don't take over. And one day the kids wont need as much attention and I'll have more free time to do more ministry or whatever else the LORD has opened up for me. I am often asked to do things at church or Katie's home school group and I need to say no. It may be a good thing. It may be a fun thing. It may even be a godly thing. But if it over fills my plate, I need to say no or I need to prune something else to make room. Because an over filled plate means nothing is being done well.

This is something that is running through my head. I am really wanting to keep my P's in order. Because when I get to heaven I want to see a smile on God's face!

Monday, October 5, 2009

I Am A Mom!

I am going on a Pastor's Wives Retreat today. I have been very nervous since I said yes. This week I have really searched my heart as to why I am so scared to go. Rick is a very capable father to his kids. Katie and mostly self sufficient and her schoolwork can be scaled back to be easier to do with her daddy. Eli is now potty trained and weened. So why am I reluctant to go? Is it guilt, fear, anxiety?
As I have searched my heart and mind this week I came up with the answer, I think! The answer is...I am a mom. That is who I am. I wont always be, but I am in the stage of life where that is what I am. This is not a negative thing as the world may think. This is a wonderful, joyous, sometimes tiring but always rewarding calling on my life! I am a mom. Do I deserve a break to go sit at Jesus' feet? YES! And I am going. But feeling guilty in going isn't really what I'm feeling. I will miss my family! I love hanging out with them. I love seeing my kids grow everyday. I love talking with my husband! I love being right in the center of God's calling on my life!
I am a mom! And I love it!

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Exactly....

I've been asked how homeschooling is going. And really I love it. But I am more exhausted than I have been in a very long time. I was browsing a friend's blog and ran across this post. I think the columnist sums up how I'm feeling perfectly...please read. You may feel the same!

TELL ME ABOUT IT ®

By Carolyn Hax
Wednesday, May 23, 2007; Page C10

Below is a letter to a columnist.

My best friend has a child. She says she's exhausted, busy, has no time for self, no time for me, etc.

I have no kids.

I sympathize, and say wow, sorry. What'd you do today?

She says, Park, play group . . .

Okay. I've done Internet searches, I've talked to parents. I don't get it. What do stay-at-home moms do all day? Please no lists of library, grocery store, dry cleaners . . . I do all those things, too, and I don't do them EVERY DAY. I guess what I'm asking is: What is a typical day and why don't moms have time for a call or e-mail? I work and am away from home nine hours a day (plus a few late work events) and I manage to get it all done. I'm feeling like the kid is an excuse to relax and enjoy -- not a bad thing at all -- but if so, why won't my friend tell me the truth? Is this a peeing contest ("My life is so much harder than yours")? What's the deal? I've got friends with and without kids and all us child-free folks get the same story and have the same questions.

The columnist's reply...

Relax and enjoy. You're funny.

Or you're lying about having friends with kids.

Or you're taking them at their word that they actually have kids, because you haven't personally been in the same room with them.

Internet searches?

I keep wavering between giving you a straight answer and giving my forehead some keyboard. To claim you want to understand, while in the same breath implying that the only logical conclusions are that your mom-friends are either lying or competing with you, is disingenuous indeed.

So, since it's validation you seem to want, the real answer is what you get. In list form. When you have young kids, your typical day is: constant attention, from getting them out of bed, fed, clean, dressed; to keeping them out of harm's way; to answering their coos, cries, questions; to having two arms and carrying one kid, one set of car keys, and supplies for even the quickest trips, including the latest-to-be-declared-essential piece of molded plastic gear; to keeping them from unshelving books at the library; to enforcing rest times; to staying one step ahead of them lest they get too hungry, tired or bored, any one of which produces the kind of checkout-line screaming that gets the checkout line shaking its head.

It's needing 45 minutes to do what takes others 15.

It's constant vigilance, constant touch, constant use of your voice, constant relegation of your needs to the second tier.

It's constant scrutiny and second-guessing from family and friends, well-meaning and otherwise. It's resisting constant temptation to seek short-term relief at everyone's long-term expense.

It's doing all this while concurrently teaching virtually everything -- language, manners, safety, resourcefulness, discipline, curiosity, creativity. Empathy. Everything.

It's also a choice, yes. And a joy. But if you spent all day, every day, with this brand of joy, and then, when you got your first 10 minutes to yourself, wanted to be alone with your thoughts instead of calling a good friend, a good friend wouldn't judge you, complain about you to mutual friends, or marvel how much more productively she uses her time. Either make a sincere effort to understand or keep your snit to yourself.

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Friday, September 4, 2009

Your's


I was cruising YouTube and found these clips. I was blown away. As many of you know, Steven Curtis and Mary Beth Chapman lost their daughter a little over a year ago. In that tragedy, Steven added a verse to his song "Yours". Here's his explanation and then the added verse...http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZYkNm0RALnQ&feature=related

If you've never heard the whole song, here's the whole song with the added verse.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Y_lHevMdpc

I know that my "troubles" this summer can not relate to the death of a child. But in my own difficulties I have come to understand that God really is in control. He really does have the answers. He really does love me. And I really am HIS!

We're Gonna Party!


This is Eli's favorite song. It's from Chris Tomlin on the Passion "Glorious" CD
...http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gy7G8VHWuXc

Let's think about this one...

I read a quote by John Piper that has me thinking.

“If you could go to heaven, with no sickness, and with all the friends you ever had on earth, and all the food you ever liked, and all the leisure activities you ever enjoyed, and all the natural beauty you ever saw, all the physical pleasure you ever tasted, and no human conflict or natural disasters, could you be satisfied with that heaven if Christ were no there?”

Tell me what you think...

Monday, August 3, 2009

Nehemiah's Prayer...mine for the USA!

I was reading Nehemiah 9 in my study time this morning and was struck how like the Israelites of the Old Testament we Americans are. We too have been very blessed by God over our 230+ years of existence. Yet we have turned away from Him. We have sought our own pleasure and not His highest for our land. Here's Nehemiah's prayer. Can you see the parallels to the USA?

5Then the Levites, Jeshua, Kadmiel, Bani, Hashabneiah, Sherebiah, Hodiah, Shebaniah and Pethahiah, said, "Arise, bless the LORD your God forever and ever!
O may Your glorious name be blessed
And exalted above all blessing and praise!
6"You alone are the LORD
You have made the heavens,
The heaven of heavens with all their host,
The earth and all that is on it,
The seas and all that is in them
You give life to all of them
And the heavenly host bows down before You.
7"You are the LORD God,
Who chose Abram
And brought him out from Ur of the Chaldees,
And gave him the name Abraham.
8"You found his heart faithful before You,
And made a covenant with him
To give him the land of the Canaanite,
Of the Hittite and the Amorite,
Of the Perizzite, the Jebusite and the Girgashite--
To give it to his descendants
And You have fulfilled Your promise,
For You are righteous.
9"You saw the affliction of our fathers in Egypt,
And heard their cry by the Red Sea.
10"Then You performed signs and wonders against Pharaoh,
Against all his servants and all the people of his land;
For You knew that they acted arrogantly toward them,
And made a name for Yourself as it is this day.
11"You divided the sea before them,
So they passed through the midst of the sea on dry ground;
And their pursuers You hurled into the depths,
Like a stone into raging waters.
12"And with a pillar of cloud You led them by day,
And with a pillar of fire by night
To light for them the way
In which they were to go.
13"Then You came down on Mount Sinai,
And spoke with them from heaven;
You gave them just ordinances and true laws,
Good statutes and commandments.
14"So You made known to them Your holy sabbath,
And laid down for them commandments, statutes and law,
Through Your servant Moses.
15"You provided bread from heaven for them for their hunger,
You brought forth water from a rock for them for their thirst,
And You told them to enter in order to possess
The land which You swore to give them.
16"But they, our fathers, acted arrogantly;
They became stubborn and would not listen to Your commandments.
17"They refused to listen,
And did not remember Your wondrous deeds which You had performed among them;
So they became stubborn and appointed a leader to return to their slavery in Egypt
But You are a God of forgiveness,
Gracious and compassionate,
Slow to anger and abounding in lovingkindness;
And You did not forsake them.
18"Even when they made for themselves
A calf of molten metal
And said, 'This is your God
Who brought you up from Egypt,'
And committed great blasphemies,
19You, in Your great compassion,
Did not forsake them in the wilderness;
The pillar of cloud did not leave them by day,
To guide them on their way,
Nor the pillar of fire by night, to light for them the way in which they were to go.
20"You gave Your good Spirit to instruct them,
Your manna You did not withhold from their mouth,
And You gave them water for their thirst.
21"Indeed, forty years You provided for them in the wilderness and they were not in want;
Their clothes did not wear out, nor did their feet swell.
22"You also gave them kingdoms and peoples,
And allotted them to them as a boundary.
They took possession of the land of Sihon the king of Heshbon
And the land of Og the king of Bashan.
23"You made their sons numerous as the stars of heaven,
And You brought them into the land
Which You had told their fathers to enter and possess.
24"So their sons entered and possessed the land
And You subdued before them the inhabitants of the land, the Canaanites,
And You gave them into their hand, with their kings and the peoples of the land,
To do with them as they desired.
25"They captured fortified cities and a fertile land
They took possession of houses full of every good thing,
Hewn cisterns, vineyards, olive groves,
Fruit trees in abundance
So they ate, were filled and grew fat,
And reveled in Your great goodness.
26"But they became disobedient and rebelled against You,
And cast Your law behind their backs
And killed Your prophets who had admonished them
So that they might return to You,
And they committed great blasphemies.
27"Therefore You delivered them into the hand of their oppressors who oppressed them,
But when they cried to You in the time of their distress,
You heard from heaven, and according to Your great compassion
You gave them deliverers who delivered them from the hand of their oppressors.
28"But as soon as they had rest, they did evil again before You;
Therefore You abandoned them to the hand of their enemies, so that they ruled over them
When they cried again to You, You heard from heaven,
And many times You rescued them according to Your compassion,
29And admonished them in order to turn them back to Your law
Yet they acted arrogantly and did not listen to Your commandments but sinned against Your ordinances,
By which if a man observes them he shall live
And they turned a stubborn shoulder and stiffened their neck, and would not listen.
30"However, You bore with them for many years,
And admonished them by Your Spirit through Your prophets,
Yet they would not give ear.
Therefore You gave them into the hand of the peoples of the lands.
31"Nevertheless, in Your great compassion You did not make an end of them or forsake them,
For You are a gracious and compassionate God.
32"Now therefore, our God, the great, the mighty, and the awesome God, who keeps covenant and lovingkindness,
Do not let all the hardship seem insignificant before You,
Which has come upon us, our kings, our princes, our priests, our prophets, our fathers and on all Your people,
From the days of the kings of Assyria to this day.
33"However, You are just in all that has come upon us;
For You have dealt faithfully, but we have acted wickedly.
34"For our kings, our leaders, our priests and our fathers have not kept Your law
Or paid attention to Your commandments and Your admonitions with which You have admonished them.
35"But they, in their own kingdom,
With Your great goodness which You gave them,
With the broad and rich land which You set before them,
Did not serve You or turn from their evil deeds.
36"Behold, we are slaves today,
And as to the land which You gave to our fathers to eat of its fruit and its bounty,
Behold, we are slaves in it.
37"Its abundant produce is for the kings
Whom You have set over us because of our sins;
They also rule over our bodies
And over our cattle as they please,
So we are in great distress.

Please LORD, forgive us and heal our land!
AMEN

Friday, July 10, 2009

I Gotta Keep Singing...


Right now things are hard in the Riggan house hole. Well, OK mostly for me in the Riggan house hold. Rick was laid off after 14 years with the same company. The house we were building will be completed August 27th. What does that mean? It means if Rick dosen't have a new job where he has work at home status or reports in in the Sacramento area by July 27th we will not be able to purchase the house. Things look rather bleak. However, this week God has been telling me part of a verse from 1 Chronicles 28:20 "Be strong and courageous, and act; do not fear nor be dismayed, for the LORD God, my God, is with you He will not fail you nor forsake you". Then this morning He led me to listen to Mercy Me Undone album. The whole album is about trusting God when everything around us says different. The last song on the album sums up my attitude today. Here's the youtube clip of it. Hope you enjoy! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LSyixFR9tLo

Thursday, June 25, 2009

I'm A 5:16 Gal.

5:16 Gal

While searching the web, I found this interesting button. I clicked on it and I fell in love with the idea. Here is what the website - Like a Warm Cup of Coffee had to say:

5:16 Gal

What is a 5:16 Gal?
A 5:16 gal is a gal who has decided that she wants to redeem the time with her Savior. She is choosing to rise early, before the day takes her away, to sit at the feet of Jesus.

5:16 Gal

What is the 5:16 club?
The idea for the 5:16 club began as the 5 am club. While the ultimate goal is to rise early, circumstances don't always allow (pregnancy, new baby, illness, etc.). The real purpose of this club is to encourage and journey with one another as we seek to spend time with the Lord every day - whatever time of the day you are able.

5:16 Gal

Why 5:16?
Ephesians 5:16 says, "making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil." The literal meaning is "redeem the time." We are seeking to redeem the time and make the most of every opportunity to seek the Lord with all our hearts.

5:16 Gal

Why?
Because the days are evil. We must prepare for battle each and every day - sometimes just to get through the day!

I was hooked! Although the idea original started with a Mom and her daughters, it spread over to the website Like a Warm Cup of Coffee. I am extending the invitation to you! Who needs to redeem the time with her Savior more than a Mom?


Count me in as a 5:16 Gal...

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

coconut chicken & all the fixings

Here's the best I can do...
In a small bowl, mix about a tablespoon of coconut milk with 2 teaspoons of honey and 1 teaspoon of lime juice. Set in the fridge.

In a large bowl, mix about 1/3 cup coconut milk, 2 tablespoons honey, 1 tablespoon lime, 1 tablespoon soy sauce, 2 1/2 teaspoons Chinese 5 spice and a pinch of salt. place chicken (I usually do 4 breasts, but you can do up to 8) in the mixture and let it sit for 15-30 minutes.

Make the white rice using 2 parts rice to 3 parts water to 1 part coconut milk.

Grill the chicken when done marinating.

Boil the snap peas in salted water until bright green. Take off heat and drain. Add drained snap peas to small bowl and mix.

Serve hot!

Another version, during the winter when you don't want to grill, is to place the marinade and chicken in the crock pot. Cook on high for about 3-4 hours and make the rest as usual. It's not as tastey without the grill taste, but it is good!

Also, sometimes I use the left over coconut milk and mix it with some honey and lime juice and heat it just under a boil. I use this a a light sauce when I serve the chicken. My husband loves it this way!

Good luck. Enjoy!

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Mom's Day Gift

For mom's day I got a t-shirt. It's great! On it it has the verse I think all mom's live by, especially when they have a two year old boy!!! The verse is Philippians 4:13 "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Certainly raising kids is of the Lord and in His strength alone!

Lion King Live


Eli's favorite movie is Lion King. He watches it almost every day. This morning Katie and Eli have decided to to "Lion King Live" in my living room. They are singing and dancing. The funny part of this is as they sing the words, I notice they don't know the actual lyrics. They were singing Hakuna Matata. But the words came out "hakuna matata. what a wonderful page. hakuna matata. ain't no passing cage. it means no worries for the rest of your days. it's our problem fee colostopee. hakuna matata." Always fun at the Riggan house.

Thursday, June 4, 2009

Help us, Jesus

I read this on the Peter-John Courson blog and I was moved...

Help Us

Written by Peter-John on May 23, 2009 – 3:25 pm -

How does this happen? Or this?

We watch a movie on poverty which makes millions…and that is the result?

Oh, Jesus. Help us.

I Can't Carry It, But I Can Carry You.


Katie has been watching the Lord of the Rings Trilogy recently. She just finished it today. I was walking through and heard a line that struck me straight to the heart. Here's the clip...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nlRVYSzgaWs&feature=related

I was reminded of the Bible passage in Galatians 6 that reads "... if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently...Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ."

We as Christians aren't called to understand or even empathize with another's burdens. We are simply to carry that person and their burdens to the cross.

My prayer is that we all be more like Samwise Gamgee and be faithful to carry you all to the cross when you need me!

Monday, May 25, 2009

Rejoice always; pray without ceasing.

Recently a friend and I were discussing some current issues happening in our country. She was feeling confused by the constant battles and falsities being given by both of the major parties here in America. As I told her, I think the key is to "Rejoice always; pray without ceasing; in everything give thanks; for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus." 1 Thes. 5:16-18.

We need to rejoice! We live in a country where we have the right to disagree. We can say we don't like the views of a person or party and that's OK. In a few years we can vote for him/her or someone else! However, as Christians we have an obligation to pray for and support our President. We need to pray for the current administration and give thanks for the hard work they are doing. Because they are working hard!

Rejoice, pray and be thankful, remembering that God is in control. 1 Peter 2:13-17 tells us to ...Submit yourselves for the Lord's sake to every authority instituted among men: whether to the king, as the supreme authority, or to governors, who are sent by him to punish those who do wrong and to commend those who do right. For it is God's will that by doing good you should silence the ignorant talk of foolish men. Live as free men, but do not use your freedom as a cover-up for evil; live as servants of God. Show proper respect to everyone: Love the brotherhood of believers, fear God, honor the king.

Peter was talking about Nero here. Nero was way worse than any President we could have. He didn't just make some bad decisions, but he killed those who disagreed with him. He killed people just for the fun of it. Those people knew problems we American's can never imagine. They had to have faith in God to follow Peter's teaching here.

Faith in God, I think is the order of the day. We can't do what the Democrats want to do and blanketly blame Bush for all the bad. Nor do as the Republicans are doing now and scaring us into hating President Obama. Neither men are all bad, neither are all good. They are men, being used of the Lord to bring about His business! And if you read the book of Revelation, you'll see GOD WINS!

So, who do we believe in the media? Who do we believe of our friends? Who do we believe?

Believe God! That's who to believe!

Friday, May 22, 2009

Common Ground?

Recently our President made a speech at Notre Dame University. In it her talked about the abortion debate. He said we need to listen to one another and find a common ground. I am all for this. Yes, let me listen to your reasons for supporting abortion, but stick around and listen to my reasons for supporting life. The problem is he doesn't mean they should listen to us. Only we should listen to them. Anyone who seriously looks into abortion can not go away and say "no, we are not killing a baby." So they just don't want to look at it.
Recently John Piper had this article on his blog. I liked it, so I want to make it available for your to read. Here are other reasons to oppose abortion (other than the basic fact that it is murder). Read and enjoy.

When do we get to talk about the other consequences of abortion, Mr. President?


I've read the transcript of your speech to the graduates of Notre Dame, Mr. President. I have a question: Do words mean anything to you, Mr. President?
In your story about the doctor who challenged a statement on your website as you ran for the presidency, you said this:
He wrote, "I do not ask at this point that you oppose abortion, only that you speak about this issue in fair-minded words." Fair-minded words.
After I read the doctor's letter, I wrote back to him and I thanked him. And I didn't change my underlying position (emphasis mine), but I did tell my staff to change the words on my website. And I said a prayer that night that I might extend the same presumption of good faith to others that the doctor had extended to me. Because when we do that -- when we open up our hearts and our minds to those who may not think precisely like we do or believe precisely what we believe -- that's when we discover at least the possibility of common ground.
That's when we begin to say, "Maybe we won't agree on abortion, but we can still agree that this heart-wrenching decision for any woman is not made casually, it has both moral and spiritual dimensions.
So let us work together to reduce the number of women seeking abortions, let's reduce unintended pregnancies. (Applause.) Let's make adoption more available. (Applause.) Let's provide care and support for women who do carry their children to term. (Applause.) Let's honor the conscience of those who disagree with abortion, and draft a sensible conscience clause, and make sure that all of our health care policies are grounded not only in sound science, but also in clear ethics, as well as respect for the equality of women." Those are things we can do. (Applause.)

So, is that the point, Mr. President - we get to talk, but the underlying positions get to remain the same? The only thing that actually changes is we think a little more charitably about each other?

Please, sir, tell me how that is supposed to make a difference?

I have a few more questions, Mr. President:

When do we get to talk about how the behavior of men on virtually every measurable level has gotten worse since abortion was made legal across the United States? Men are more likely to leave women today, more likely to be abusive, less likely to care for the children they father, and less likely to consider the consequences of their sexual behavior. Up to 75% of marriages that have a disabled child end in divorce, and most of the time it is the man who walks away from his family. When do we get to talk about men being encouraged to act like men rather than petulant, irresponsible, selfish little boys?
When do we get to talk about the cultural expectation that a mother is expected to abort her baby with an identified disability in the womb? Doctors, nurses, social workers assume a diagnosis of downs syndrome or spina bifida means a woman should terminate the pregnancy. What do you call a 90% abortion rate, Mr. President? If it were babies of any ethnicity, you would rightly call it genocide. What do you believe about families in this situation, Mr. President?
Finally, Mr. President, you said yourself that "the strong too often dominate the weak." Please explain to me, Mr. President, who is more weak and thus more worthy of your protection as the leader of the free world than a baby in his or her mother's womb?

But, of course, I'm just part of that opposition not really worthy of your attention or of 'Open hearts. Open minds. Fair-minded words.' How did you put it?

"You'll hear talking heads scream on cable, and you'll read blogs that claim definitive knowledge, and you will watch politicians pretend they know what they're talking about."

Monday, May 11, 2009

Eli's Wish List


Eli just came and said he wants to be Spiderman for his birthday wish list. I'm not sure I know how to do that. Should I have a spider bite him?

Katie's Wish List


Katie and Elisha's birthday is coming up (same day, remember!). They have both began asking to add things to their wish lists. Katie is getting older and more sophisticated in her wishes. She has asked for an ipod, a cell phone, her own lap top computer, a t.v./d.v.d. player in her room, and high healed shoes. Well, yesterday she said she wants to add one more thing to the top of her list...a trip to England to see her Kinder Prep teacher, Mrs. Kennedy. I'm not sure I can afford to have this child much longer. This is her request at almost 8. What will she want when she's 16?

Thursday, April 30, 2009

Super Hero's

My husband loves comics. It was how he learned to read as a kid. Because of this he has introduced the kids to super heroes like Spider Man, Superman, Wonder Woman, etc. For a harvest festival two years ago Katie dressed up as Wonder Woman. She still has the costume in her dress up clothes. Recently she and Eli were playing in her room
and then came into the office looking like this...
Eli now loves to play dress up and will go get the Wonder Woman cape and headband while Katie is in school. It's so cute. I guess November first I'll be buying some super hero costumes for Eli. Why November first you ask? 50% costumes! He'll never know!
I love having these two. They are always fun and creative! And best of all, they love each other!

Katie's Broken Bone

My beautiful, precious, girly girl has now had either 3 or 4 broken bones. We know the first was when she was 17 months, the second at 27 months and then we think she broke a toe in January time frame. Now she has had a broken elbow. She fell from some monkey bars at the park. When she was being casted she was given the choice of colors. She chose blue (a surprise to me when given the choice of purple, pink, green, etc.).
Recently we went to visit my parents. The kids were given Easter Baskets. Eli's was a Spider Man basket. As my parents, Rick and I were lingering at the dinner table Katie began to play with her Easter toys. Then she stood up and looked at my dad and said "Reporting for battle, sir" and this is how she looked...

Toilet Training

Elisha is almost 3 years old. His birthday is in less than 2 months. We began talking to him about going potty a couple of months ago and he thought the toilet was cool to play with, but that was all. Now if I even mention the idea of sitting on the potty he cries and runs the other direction. It has gotten so bad that when I asked him if he needed a diaper change this morning he said "no, I no need diaper change. I like my poopy diaper." Now I'm beginning to wonder if I need to buy stock in adults diapers so I can change his diaper before he walks down the aisle on his wedding day.
If anyone out there has a sure fire way to train your boys I'm open for ideas. The book I checked out at the library and the video Huggies sent me all basically say "when he's ready, he's ready". Rick and I would like to help get him ready. We're done with the changing game. The changing table is even ready for him to be trained...it broke when Rick put him on it the other day. :)
Thanks for any advise! Have have a wonderful day!

Thursday, April 23, 2009

The Tea Cup

The Tea Cup

There was a couple who took a trip to England to shop in a beautiful antique store to celebrate their 25th wedding anniversary. They both liked antiques and pottery, and especially teacups. Spotting an exceptional cup, they asked "May we see that? We've never seen a cup quite so beautiful."

As the lady handed it to them, suddenly the teacup spoke, "You don't understand. I have not always been a teacup. There was a time when I was just a lump of red clay. My master took me and rolled me, pounded and patted me over and over, and I yelled out, "Don't do that." "I don't like it!" "Let me alone!"
But he only smiled and gently said, "Not yet."
Then WHAM! I was placed on a spinning wheel and suddenly I was spun around and around and around. "Stop it! I'm getting so dizzy! I'm going to be sick!," I screamed.
But the master only nodded and said, quietly; "Not yet."
He spun me and poked and prodded and bent me out of shape to suit himself and then he put me in the oven. I never felt such heat. I yelled and knocked and pounded at the door. "Help! Get me out of here!" I could see him through the opening and I could read his lips as he shook his head from side to side, "Not yet."
When I thought I couldn't bear it another minute, the door opened. He carefully took me out and put me on the shelf, and I began to cool. Oh, that felt so good! "Ah, this is much better," I thought. But after I cooled he picked me up and he brushed and painted me all over. The fumes were horrible. I thought I would gag. "Oh, please, Stop it, Stop," I cried. He only shook his head and said. "Not yet."
Then suddenly he put me back in to the oven.. Only it was not like the first one. This was twice as hot and I just knew I would suffocate. I begged. I pleaded. I screamed. I cried I was convinced I would never make it. I was ready to give up. Just then the door opened and he took me out and again placed me on the shelf, where I cooled and waited and waited, wondering, "What's he going to do to me next?"
An hour later he handed me a mirror and said, 'Look at yourself.' And I did. I said, "That's not me; that couldn't be me. It's beautiful. I'm beautiful!!!"
Quietly he spoke: "I want you to remember, then," he said, "I know it hurt to be rolled and pounded and patted, but had I just left you alone, you'd have dried up. I know it made you dizzy to spin around on the wheel, but if I had stopped, you would have crumbled. I know it hurt and it was hot and disagreeable in the oven, but if I hadn't put you there, you would have cracked. I know the fumes were bad when I brushed and painted you all over, but if I hadn't done that, you would not have had any color in your life. If I hadn't put you back in that second oven, you wouldn't have survived for long without learning steadfastness. Now you are a finished product. Now you are what I had in mind when I first began with you."

The moral of this story is this: God knows what He's doing for each of us. He is the Potter and we are His clay. He will mold us and make us and expose us to just enough pressure of the right kind that we may be made into a flawless piece of work to fulfill His good, pleasing, and perfect will. So when life seems hard, and you are being pounded and patted and pushed almost beyond endurance; when your world seems to be spinning out of control; when you feel like you are in a fiery furnace of trials; when life seems to "stink," try this...Brew a cup of your favorite tea in your prettiest tea cup, sit down and think on this story and then, have a little talk with the Potter.

Isaiah 64:8

Yet, O LORD, you are our Father.
We are the clay, you are the potter;
we are all the work of your hand.

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

If You Want Me To

As many of you know, I have Fibromyalgia. I was diagnosed 9 years ago last February. When I first started dealing with it I felt betrayed by my own body and honestly a little let down by God. I was only 26 years old; much too young to be in such pain. But as I spent time reading the scriptures and crying out to God for answers I learned one thing very clearly, Deuteronomy 31:6 is true...He never left me in the pain. He blessed me with more of Him in it.

Recently we went on a little road trip. I decided to pull out some older CD's to listen to. One such CD was done by Ginny Owens. In this CD she has a song called "If You Want Me To". I nearly started crying as I listened to the song. I remembered that God used that song to really minister to my heart when I was first sick. One on the lines is "This may not be the way I would have chosen, when You lead me through a world that's not my own. But You never said it would be easy. You only said I'd never go alone." It absolutely amazed me to think of how desperate I was back then. I question God and did not feel like a blessed daughter of the King. Now I feel so blessed I can hardly remember how I felt back then. God has always blessed me, even in the pain. I can confidently say that Romans 8:28 and 2 Corinthians 9:8 are absolutely true!

I found the song on YouTube to share with you. Please enjoy and remember that no matter what, God has a plan for your life! Trust HIM!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QtNzOpKvPfw&feature=related

Monday, April 20, 2009

John Pipper post I love!



Mark 8:34-36:

If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake and the gospel's will save it. For what does it profit a man to gain the whole world and forfeit his soul?

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

Wisdom From Marlee and Me

Last night I watched a movie called Marlee and Me starring Owen Wilson and Jennifer Aniston. It was a good movie for anyone married or seriously thinking of getting married! It really shows some of the pain and work associated with marriage and child rearing!
In the movie Owen Wilson's character says when talking about a fight he had with his wife "Don't end it, mend it." Good advise, right? I mean anyone who sews knows that when we fix a whole the stitched part is thicker and harder to pull apart. It's been "mended".
Then I started thinking about that statement and it reminded me of some of King Solomon's advise in Ecclesiastes "If one can overpower him who is alone, two can resist him. A cord of three strands is not quickly torn apart." We need that third chord to keep our marriage from being pulled apart. Right now with so many influences trying to take you away from your marriage commitment, we need to make a stronger commitment to tying that chord as thick as possible!

Saturday, April 4, 2009

Easter Sunday



Rick, my husband, is the Worship Pastor at our church (www,ccmv.org). Every year we are busy at Easter time preparing worship music and having band practices. This always makes it hard to really instill in our kids the reason for Easter. They've never heard of an Easter Bunny, of course, but I sometimes worry they think Easter is when Mamma and Daddy become busy and distracted, instead of really celebrating the Resurrection of our Lord and Savior.
Two years ago I bought a thing called "Resurrection Eggs" in which each egg tells a part of the story of Passion Week with a symbol. For example, a cup for communion, a set of praying hands for His prayer on the mount of olives, a piece of leather for the whipping of Jesus, crown of thorns, rock for the tomb and so on. The final egg is empty because Jesus isn't there any more! We've done these eggs with Katie, but I wasn't so sure how much she was getting, until Thursday. She came up and said "Mom, Easter is soon, right? how come we haven't done the egg things yet?" I asked wheat egg thing she was talking about and she proceeded to tell me all 12 eggs! My daughter knew the Easter story and the true reason for our celebrating!
This year we are going to add one new element to the Easter celebration at the Riggan house. I found two recipe's that show the Easter story in a more hands on way. I'm not sure which we will do this year, but here are the links for you to try out, yourself.
http://homeparents.about.com/cs/eastercrafts/a/eastertradition.htm
http://homeparents.about.com/cs/eastercrafts/a/eastertradition_2.htm
If you want to get a box of Resurrection Eggs go to www.christianbook.com and type in resurrection eggs in the search. They are around $10, I believe.

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Satan's meeting

Satan's meeting...Click the link below to view it now: http://www.tangle.com/view_video.php?viewkey=0edec55cb25411422efd&sp=2


I add to that...Satan wants to keep our kids too busy for family time, church or youth group by giving them more and more homework and more hoops to jump through before they can get into college or get a good job. Let's all take a step back, take a deep breath and reconnect with God and His body.

Sunday, March 29, 2009

Great Video

As I prepare for homeschooling next year with Katie I have had concerns about her reading and "keeping up with state standards". But as I watched this video I was reminded that God made us each different. All God asks is that we trust Him and try to do our best. Sometimes we may be what I've heard called "late bloomers". As long as we do what God has for us to do, who cares how long it takes.
I hope you are inspired as I was by these famous failures!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y6hz_s2XIAU

Walt Disney Quotes

"The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing." Walt Disney

"Why do we have to grow up? I know more adults who have the children's approach to life. They're people who don't give a hang what the Joneses do. " Walt Disney

"There is more treasure n books than in all the pirates' loot on Treasure Island and at the bottom of the Spanish Main ... and best of all, you can enjoy these riches every day of your life." Walt Disney

"Crowded classrooms and half-day sessions are a tragic waste of our greatest national resource - the minds of our children." Walt Disney

"A man should never neglect his family for business." Walt Disney

"Around here ... we don't look backwards for very long. We keep moving forward, opening up new doors and doing new things ... and curiosity keeps leading us down new paths." Walt Disney